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"My relationships are inspired by a liberal-humanistic sexually liberated viewpoint, which guides my extra-dyadic attachments. In layman’s terms, I am a poly equal opportunity fuck(er). ~ A-Lolitas-Life"

- A-Lolitas-Life

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daddy-of-the-angel asked: Dear Lolita, I just read the story about you, your Hubs and your Daddy - this is awesome - you're guys are the greatest and soooo lucky. All the best :*

Meep! Thank you! I will certainly pass on the love to my family as well. Please write anytime!

Xoxo,

Lolita

scorpio-submissive asked: Thanks for taking the time to answer so many questions! You are a cutie pie and your followers are truly the sweetest followers I have ever seen; lucky you! I truly learn a lot from your blog and your posts are always so interesting and adorable :) Always stay positive <3

Hi there and thank you so much for your kindness! I do have some in desk me followers and you are one of them! Thank you for the smile!

Xoxo,

Lolita

Anonymous asked: link to FAQ?

It’s actually a tab option on the top of my page!

Xoxo,

Lolita

bunny-girl22 asked: It's me again! I don't have a question, I just wanted to say I've been reading your FAQ and your story really is amazing. Thank you so much for sharing. You are so brave! And cute. <3

Hi there!!

I’m so glad you’ve enjoyed reading my FAQ! You’re just too sweet! It always means the world to me when my followers send me kindness. I hope you’re having a great day! Please write anytime!

xoxo,

Lolita

"We love your blog! My lil bug got her first spankin today :) She asked Daddy to submit this to you in hopes that you’d post it… She believes it would be an honor if you choose to put her lil red bottom on your page. She’s my lil good girl, but today she learned not to sass her Daddy!"
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Hello there and thank you SO much for your submission. What a lovely freshly spanked pink bottom!! &lt;3
Hope the sass was worth the pink ass *wink*
xoxo,
Lolita

"We love your blog! My lil bug got her first spankin today :) She asked Daddy to submit this to you in hopes that you’d post it… She believes it would be an honor if you choose to put her lil red bottom on your page. She’s my lil good girl, but today she learned not to sass her Daddy!"

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Hello there and thank you SO much for your submission. What a lovely freshly spanked pink bottom!! <3

Hope the sass was worth the pink ass *wink*

xoxo,

Lolita

kinkykittengirl asked: I'm really curious about your poly dynamic. I don't know any people in poly relationships in the real world, and I would like to learn more about your dynamic, how the roles work and this relationship is fulfilling for you and your daddy and husband! No need to answer if you feel uncomfortable. I'm just another curious little. Hope you're having a wonderful night and I really like your blog!

I will try to explain our “Poly-cule” (which is basically the layout of our poly family.

Vinnie, Hubs and Lolita are the primary triad. We all live together and have been a primary triad for almost three years! Hubs and Lolita have two Minions together who also live in our home with us. We then have a new secondary relationship, Hubs and Kat. She is only in a relationship with Hubs but she is a friend of the whole Triad and is part of our family. Finally, there are two non-sexual poly-love family members, (another) Kat and Teal. These are additional poly family members we view as VERY much part of our family although none of us are in a intimate or romantic relationship with them. (I call them my sisters). 

I hope that helps better explain my immediate poly family!

xoxo,

Lolita

Anonymous asked: Do genuine feelings of jealousy ever occur in your triad? If so, how do You (plural) cope?

Jealousy is one of those words I just do not associate to very well anymore. I know what burning hot jealousy feels like and it’s something from my past that I just do not experience anymore. 

That is not to say we don’t sometimes feel a little… neglected or uncomfortable when something new happens that we haven’t quite dealt with together before.

For example, I did struggle a couple weeks back with some of the severe NRE (new relationship energy) that is buzzing in my home with Hubs’ secondary partner. Some of my time with Hubs was neglected as a oversight by Hubs because of how engolfed in his new relationship he is. I did not feel that “feeling” of jealousy, however my emotions were concerning as I was feeling as if I was being overlooked mistakenly by my partner’s blindness to a new relationship.

By communicating my conerns with him, we were able to address some of the things that were being neglected and overlooked because of his new relationship and worked together to try and find ways to make sure people were not being dismissed accidently.

Sometimes in polyamorous families, when someone new comes into the picture your partner can almost be blinded in their NRE. It’s not “okay” to allow that energy to dismiss previous obligations or your other relationships, but it’s okay to point those things out to your partner so they can be addressed. 

We are a team. I am excited for new partners and our growing family. But we are ALL very very good about being open, honest, and transparent with each other through communication. That helps up avoid the negativity that jealousy can bring into our family.

I hope that was helpful!

xoxo,

Lolita

Anonymous asked: What is a "little"?
Explaining what a “Little” is, is complicated because it’s going to be different for everyone. It’s a personal experience that revolves around regression (with or without an age).
For me, a “Little” can be defined in many different ways but to simplify, most “Littles” have a few key things in common. The overwhelming need to be nurtured, the desire to becared for, and to taught (given structure) by their caregiver (or themselves), submissiveness and discipline, innocent and childlike behavior, and finally there is often an attraction to Taboo sexual roleplay (but not always). It’s also often a subcatagory of D/s as well and can impliment BDSM and Dom/sub play on a more tenderness and structure platform.
What’s important to remember is that being Little is defined by YOU and your experiences and uniqueness!
And please, do not let anyone tell you what you are or are not based on their “rules” or “laws” about how to “properly” be a little. That is an environment you do not want to be around. No one defines you, but YOU.
xoxo,
Lolita
Anonymous asked: I want to let my inner little out. Ive gotten depressed lately because I've been repressing it. Idk how to tell my boyfriend because we've been together for a while and it will seem random and weird to him and think its a phase or something. Help?

I think it’s important to gather your thoughts and what you want to express to your boyfriend first, but then plan to have a sit down together so you can communicate your feelings and thoughts with him. It wouldn’t hurt to do some searching online of websites or sources that explain what Ageplay and being a Little is so that you can share them with him.

Work together with your partner to find a way to have your dynamic meeting everyone’s needs without anyone feeling super uncomfortable.

Do try and remember that this might not happen over night, sometimes it takes time to work with our partners to find what works and what does not. Just be open and encouraging about being honest and communicating concerns with each other.

Just take a deep breath and allow yourself a little time to get organized in your thoughts and what you want to discuss with your partner first. Patience and communication will get you both to a place where you find a dynamic that fits everyone’s needs.

Best of luck!

Lolita