Anonymous asked: ? How do u balance dressing like a little/Lolita. From my understanding you have kids which means you have to keep face to the "adult world " and am not sure what you do for a living but am sure like the rest of us. You have to dress like "an adult" how do you balance that ? I attend a bonfire engagement party w daddy and I wore by plaid school skirt and a sweater w a bow in my hair. And some ppl made fun of me. Daddy liked that outfit over jeans and a sweater. Has that ever happen 2 u ?

Hi there!

My specific look isn’t the classic Lolita fashion as you might think. I do wear (what I call) “Little friendly” clothes, but they’re not as exaggerated as some of the Lolita Fashion dresses. 

I believe that there are ways to dress in something that makes you feel little and it be public appropriate, work appropriate, and home appropriate. For example, I wear bows no matter where I am, even if I was in a workplace. 

Wear what you love and follow and dress codes if you must. Otherwise, be you and embrace it!

xoxo,

Lolita

Anonymous asked: Hello may I ask advice about being in an open relationship? I was abused and sexually assaulted by my ex while we were in an open relationship.. However if it goes to court, I have been warned that I'll have it harder than most witnesses coz I had sex with other people, but so did my ex.. I am really scared coz I know I'll be perceived as a slut.. What can I do? What can I say to get the jury to understand the difference? Thanks

Hi there!

Please come to me off Anon and we can talk more specifically if you’d like. In the most general terms, you need to speak to your lawyer and be  completely honest with them. They will have the correct advice to give you.

Thanks!

Lolita

theinnerworkingsofabrokengirl asked: Hi, my name is Aurora. I just discovered I am not only a little but I am a furry too. I just wanted to say hi. so HIIIIIIIII!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hi Aurora!

It’s SUPER nice to meet you! Congrats on your new journey into being a little AND a furry! I have a few close friends who share that commonality with you!

HI BACK!!

xoxo,

Lolita

zooeyandfrannyglass:

i hate remembering good times that i had with people who ended up being really shitty to me

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All the yes!

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budgetlolita:

Chiffon bow clip $17.01
Also available in black and navy

budgetlolita:

Chiffon bow clip $17.01

Also available in black and navy

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Hello all my artistic followers! I need your help with some design work! (Please Reblog!)

a-lolitas-life:

Daddy and I are looking for someone to design a button for the “LittleSpace Disneyland 2014” trip!!

(Even if you’re not interested, help get the word out to your amazingly artistic followers by reblogging!)

Ideally we’d love to have a Little friendly button design that says:

“LittleSpace Disneyland 2014”

on it with an adorable design that fits our community. It can be as simple or elaborate as you like, we only require the words! Also, the buttons are going to be the large classic round shirt buttons.

If we pick your design - it will be worn all over Disneyland this year by the amazing Bigs and Littles attending the weekend (event. We will also post and promo your design work on our blogs!

(If there is anything you need in addition to that, we are willing to work with you.)

Please send your designs (600 x 600 minimum) to my email:

alolitaslife@gmail.com

If you have any questions at all, shoot me a message. Looking forward to seeing your amazing designs!!!

Xoxo,

Lolita

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chiffonroseshop:

Layers upon layers of lace on Innocent World’s Three Tier Lace Round Collar Blouse

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gorogoroiu:

Navy Striped Sailor Dress from Harajuku Fashion

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atma-moon:

We Heart It.

atma-moon:

We Heart It.

Same.

xoxo,

Lolita

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