Daddy pinched me (consensually… obviously)… Yeah this is from a PINCH!!!

What in the world…

Xoxo,

Lolita

Honeydukes in Hogsmeade at The Wizarding World of Harry Potter

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I’ll be hosting another Big Little Tinychat soon (perhaps another Panel?)!!!

So stay tuned…

xoxo,

Lolita

P. S. I have some ideas for what I’d like to do BUT I’d love to hear some of your ideas… What would you like?

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Daddy wrote a FANTASTIC recap of the LittleSpace Disneyland Trip 2014 and I wanted to share it here too! I really hope this amazing event continues to grow as it has each year. I hope to see you next year… it will be the first weekend of October 2015! Start planning now!
xoxo,
Lolita
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daddyvinnie:

LittleSpace Disneyland Trip 2014 Recap
Wow! Just Wow!  We had a fantastic time at the 2014 LittleSpace Disneyland Trip.   If you only have one vacation to take, start saving now for a three-day weekend at Disneyland in Anaheim, California for the first weekend in October. It’s TRULY as big as a Little’s Christmas - the high holy day of the year!
In all, we had 52 individual people come to the associated events for LittleSpace Disneyland!  FIFTY-TWO!  THANK YOU to each and everyone of you. In no particular order, there was -
Me (Daddy Vinnie), my Lolita, Teal, Alan, Sabby Jake, Alan (2), Alyssa, Dave, Hannah, Arden, Lizzie, Jenna, Treasure, Sean, Renee, Jack, Olive, Kevin, Lindsey, Conrad, Tristy, Donnie, Craig, Lizzie (2), Sean, Belle, Lesley, Ericka, Mark, Angie, Corrin, Becky (Apples), Caelu, LadySolaris, Nina, Matt, Spencer, Ashle, Wolff, John, Cas, Jul, Carolanne, Katie, Zacci, Jesbian, Chris, Donnie’s 4 friends! (I think that’s 52!).
If I missed you or spelled your name incorrectly, please let me know!
We had people from the Washington, D.C. area, Pittsburgh, PA, Michigan, Arizona, all over the California Bay Area (Fremont, San Francisco, Sacramento) and all over Los Angeles, Orange and San Diego counties.  Wow… what a great turn out!
On Friday, Oct. 3, we hosted a pool and pizza party at the Anaheim Plaza Hotel and Suites and had about 20 of us in the pool and hot tub and pizza by the pool.  We watched Disneyland fireworks and agreed to meet up at the Plaza Inn in Disneyland for an All-You-Can-Eat Character Breakfast.  
We had 32 people show up for the breakfast and had a great group picture taken.  
Lolita and I went on Space Mountain right after our big breakfast.. haha… maybe not the best choice we’ve ever made. haha.   :)
We split up a bit and went on some rides and then had lunch at the Pizza Port - we had 27 people meet up for lunch, including our friends from the L.A area, whom we had met the previous year at LittleSpace Disneyland 2013!  We made arrangements to meet about 5:30 or 6:00 to sit and wait for several hours for the Fantasmic show! 
Oh, what fun. We had between 22 and 25 people for Fantasmic!  So much fun. Afterwards, Lolita and I and Teal and Alan went on the Haunted Mansion late at night and on Pirates of the Caribbean!  woo hoo! no long lines because everyone was watching the 2nd Fantasmics show.
We had a small turn out for the iHop Breakfast but a good one, with some peeps coming out for the second year in a row to spend the day with us.
Then at 2:00 on Sunday, Oct. 5, at Flo’s V-8 diner in A California Adventure, Lolita and I hosted A Big Little Discussion on the road for about 20 or so people, including many new friends!  We split up the couples and had a discussion with mostly Littles on one side and mostly Daddies/Caregivers on the other.  
That ended the official events for the weekend.
Lolita and I and Teal and Alan were able to see Ariel and 4 of her Princess friends (Belle, Snow White, Tiana, and Cinderella) at Ariel’s Grotto. What fun, especially since Ariel is Lolita’s favorite Princess of all.
The best part of the weekend, besides seeing Lolita in LittleSpace almost the entire time, was being able to spend so much time and ride rides with a big group. I think we had 16 for the Matterhorn, we took up an entire boat of 15 for It’s a Small World, and a big group went on Star Tours together.  We rode Tower of Terror several times, once with a group of 12 or 13.  
All in all, it was a fantastic time!   We’ve made some lasting friends, people we hope to see throughout the year.
Planning is in the beginning stages for next year.
Lolita and i and Teal and Alan ended up at the Mad T Party in A California Adventure and saw a great band there and listened to some Deejay music and saw some stage dancers and performers.  We’re thinking of changing up some of the events to include some activities for “middles” for next years - another reason for Daddies and Mommies and CLs to keep tighter leashes or to chase them over there to see the great show.  
I highly encourage everyone who sees this to pass it around to those interested in the 2015 version of LittleSpace Disneyland Trip - first weekend of October. 
We will be there!  Until then………… here’s to happily ever after, all over again.
- Daddy Vinnie
p.s. now we return you to the regular broadcast of Daddy Vinnie’s Rough and Tumble, with new features coming soon.

Daddy wrote a FANTASTIC recap of the LittleSpace Disneyland Trip 2014 and I wanted to share it here too! I really hope this amazing event continues to grow as it has each year. I hope to see you next year… it will be the first weekend of October 2015! Start planning now!

xoxo,

Lolita

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daddyvinnie:

LittleSpace Disneyland Trip 2014 Recap

Wow! Just Wow!  We had a fantastic time at the 2014 LittleSpace Disneyland Trip.   If you only have one vacation to take, start saving now for a three-day weekend at Disneyland in Anaheim, California for the first weekend in October. It’s TRULY as big as a Little’s Christmas - the high holy day of the year!

In all, we had 52 individual people come to the associated events for LittleSpace Disneyland!  FIFTY-TWO!  THANK YOU to each and everyone of you. In no particular order, there was -

Me (Daddy Vinnie), my Lolita, Teal, Alan, Sabby Jake, Alan (2), Alyssa, Dave, Hannah, Arden, Lizzie, Jenna, Treasure, Sean, Renee, Jack, Olive, Kevin, Lindsey, Conrad, Tristy, Donnie, Craig, Lizzie (2), Sean, Belle, Lesley, Ericka, Mark, Angie, Corrin, Becky (Apples), Caelu, LadySolaris, Nina, Matt, Spencer, Ashle, Wolff, John, Cas, Jul, Carolanne, Katie, Zacci, Jesbian, Chris, Donnie’s 4 friends! (I think that’s 52!).

If I missed you or spelled your name incorrectly, please let me know!

We had people from the Washington, D.C. area, Pittsburgh, PA, Michigan, Arizona, all over the California Bay Area (Fremont, San Francisco, Sacramento) and all over Los Angeles, Orange and San Diego counties.  Wow… what a great turn out!

On Friday, Oct. 3, we hosted a pool and pizza party at the Anaheim Plaza Hotel and Suites and had about 20 of us in the pool and hot tub and pizza by the pool.  We watched Disneyland fireworks and agreed to meet up at the Plaza Inn in Disneyland for an All-You-Can-Eat Character Breakfast.  

We had 32 people show up for the breakfast and had a great group picture taken.  

Lolita and I went on Space Mountain right after our big breakfast.. haha… maybe not the best choice we’ve ever made. haha.   :)

We split up a bit and went on some rides and then had lunch at the Pizza Port - we had 27 people meet up for lunch, including our friends from the L.A area, whom we had met the previous year at LittleSpace Disneyland 2013!  We made arrangements to meet about 5:30 or 6:00 to sit and wait for several hours for the Fantasmic show! 

Oh, what fun. We had between 22 and 25 people for Fantasmic!  So much fun. Afterwards, Lolita and I and Teal and Alan went on the Haunted Mansion late at night and on Pirates of the Caribbean!  woo hoo! no long lines because everyone was watching the 2nd Fantasmics show.

We had a small turn out for the iHop Breakfast but a good one, with some peeps coming out for the second year in a row to spend the day with us.

Then at 2:00 on Sunday, Oct. 5, at Flo’s V-8 diner in A California Adventure, Lolita and I hosted A Big Little Discussion on the road for about 20 or so people, including many new friends!  We split up the couples and had a discussion with mostly Littles on one side and mostly Daddies/Caregivers on the other.  

That ended the official events for the weekend.

Lolita and I and Teal and Alan were able to see Ariel and 4 of her Princess friends (Belle, Snow White, Tiana, and Cinderella) at Ariel’s Grotto. What fun, especially since Ariel is Lolita’s favorite Princess of all.

The best part of the weekend, besides seeing Lolita in LittleSpace almost the entire time, was being able to spend so much time and ride rides with a big group. I think we had 16 for the Matterhorn, we took up an entire boat of 15 for It’s a Small World, and a big group went on Star Tours together.  We rode Tower of Terror several times, once with a group of 12 or 13.  

All in all, it was a fantastic time!   We’ve made some lasting friends, people we hope to see throughout the year.

Planning is in the beginning stages for next year.

Lolita and i and Teal and Alan ended up at the Mad T Party in A California Adventure and saw a great band there and listened to some Deejay music and saw some stage dancers and performers.  We’re thinking of changing up some of the events to include some activities for “middles” for next years - another reason for Daddies and Mommies and CLs to keep tighter leashes or to chase them over there to see the great show.  

I highly encourage everyone who sees this to pass it around to those interested in the 2015 version of LittleSpace Disneyland Trip - first weekend of October. 

We will be there!  Until then………… here’s to happily ever after, all over again.

- Daddy Vinnie

p.s. now we return you to the regular broadcast of Daddy Vinnie’s Rough and Tumble, with new features coming soon.

dom-wolfy:

Daddy never lets go…

dom-wolfy:

Daddy never lets go…

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xpandaxpockyx asked: Hi, I'm in a poly relationship and am looking for a daddy. Knowing that there are possibilities of it working out, even with children involved, gives me hope that I can find the right daddy and our relationship will continue to flourish. Thank you for having your blog. Do you have any advice for looking for a daddy?

Hi there and thank you for your message!

My advice would be to keep your heart and mind open. There are websites like Fetlife that you can use as a tool to look for a community near you and maybe even Big/little groups that meet in your area! Stay true to what you’re looking for and don’t rush into something that might not make you happy.

xoxo,

Lolita

sparkleprincessunite asked: You are such kind and honest member of the community, thanks for being there for everyone and sharing your stories! I check your blog all the time and you've made me feel super less lonely and more accepting of myself. Cannot thank you enough! <3

Hi SparklePrincessUnite!

Thank you so much for the message, it’s notes like this that really warm my day. Please write anytime, I’d love to be friends!

xoxo,

Lolita

Anonymous asked: your makeup is always so amazing, would you consider doing a little makeup tutorial?

Uhm, maybe. I just didn’t think there was an interest for that. Is there?

xoxo,

Lolita

Owning a Pet in Little Space!!!

So we had The Big Little Discussion, which is for Age Players and Pet Players, tonight. It brought out this desire (one I’ve always had) in owning a Pet for my Little side. It’s play I do have some experience with but something I feel I haven’t really had the chance to truly explore. 

At the most recent Pride festival I had the opportunity to drive a Human Pony and was surprised at how I connected with the Pony while in deep Little space (but Top/Brat Little Space). For example, when he pulled to the left when I was steering right, I wanted SO BADLY to correct him briskly and harshly with a driving crop. It felt very natural and VERY connected to my Little headspace. 

Having my own Pony or even a Puppy would be a really incredible experience and one I’d love to explore more! I know I crave that connection and I’m looking forward to exploring it in the near future! (There is this ADORABLE Puppy that comes to the discussion and I’m just so shy but I want to reach out to him about potential play… eeeeek!)

Anyways, it was a wonderful discussion tonight, we had 17 in attendance and I wish ALL of you could have been there!

xoxo,

Lolita

Heading to The Big Little Discussion!! If you’re in San Diego, I hope you can make it out!! Also&#8230; You can see my bracelet collar!!

Xoxo,

Lolita

Heading to The Big Little Discussion!! If you’re in San Diego, I hope you can make it out!! Also… You can see my bracelet collar!!

Xoxo,

Lolita

bonyhands123 asked: When did you find out you wanted to be in a triad relationship

I don’t think it was so much a sudden epiphany for me as much as it was hitting rock bottom and looking for alternative options (see details in my FAQ). 

Polyamory was hard to find. I knew monogamy was not working for me and Hubs, but I didn’t know there were other options to consider until we were looking at divorce as our only option and one we just didn’t want. Opening our hearts and minds to go beyond the strict “you can only do this” box we were both raised in took some time… but changed our lives for the better forever!

This lifestyle just fits us and we cannot imagine our lives the way they use to be. This is real. This is love. This is us.

xoxo,

Lolita

Anonymous asked: I'm glad you guys are adjusting well! Every once in a while we all sit in the dining room and play a tabletop game. Big Brother and I like AHS too, but Big Sister doesn't like scary things. ~little Brister

Hello Little Brister!

Thank you for the note and for sharing a bit about you all too! My Meta doesn’t really like scary movies either so I know what you mean! And this AHS season is actually pretty damn spooky…(the clown scares the be-jezus out of me).

xoxo,

Lolita